A common human experience is having to see someone the day or week after having an argument with them. It can be awkward, especially if you said some stuff you regret, and it can be potentially combative. People typically do not like to admit that they were wrong and can often not let the argument go. You may have a specific disagreement with a coworker, friend, neighbor, spouse, kid, or community group member come to mind. How can you take a step towards reconciliation and repentance? In our text, Paul told the Corinthians of his plans to visit them again for a third time but this comes on the backdrop of a previous second visit that was tense, followed by Paul’s painful corrective letter to them and their accusations that Paul was wishy-washy for not coming in person sooner. How can Paul show up a third time and expect it to go well when the last time ended in arguments and suspicion towards Paul? Our scripture passage paved the way for that third visit and Paul wrote to them about the intentions of godly leadership and the marks of what it means to be part of a church community as a way to set their expectations for reconciliation with him as their Apostle. Reconciliation and spiritual growth always require humility and our Christian leaders can help that by using their authority with selfless love.

Who is the strongest person you know? Is it someone who is physically strong who can lift a lot of weight, carry all the groceries in on a single trip and never get tired? Is it someone who is really resilience, self sufficient, never anxious and able to navigate really tough circumstances without being slowed down? Both those kinds of strength can be great assets and help you get far in the world, but what if the strongest person you know actually appears pretty weak? Paul continued his teaching on human weakness and strength and taught that true strength was actually found in knowing just how much you need help from other people and God.

Is weakness an asset in our lives? On surface level many of us would say “no." Typically we want to be physically stronger, more emotionally resilient and independent. Feeling weak is uncomfortable. Our culture has also put a pressure on many of us to be successful and competent in everything. What makes someone successful? Is it a life of comfort, financial security, emotional stability or something else? What if God’s plan for you life included a lot of suffering, hardship and vulnerability. What would “success” look like in that scenario or would that kind of life be unsuccessful in general? The false teachers in Corinth criticized Paul for how much he suffered and saw it as a reason for why he was not called by God. They emphasized was a veneer or image of strength and put pressure on the Corinthians to be powerful, wealthy and influential and to avoid things that would make them uncomfortable and by doing so they minimized the gospel message. Core to the gospel is that we are people in need of God and that God has responded to our sin by sending his son who embraced humility and human weakness becoming like his creation in order to save us. Paul wanted the Corinthians and us to understand that our suffering and weakness are key to faithfully following Christ and that our genuine weakness shows the gospel more than our pretend strength.

Most of us have had the experience of being embarrassed by our parents as a kid or by a friend, boss or coworker at some point in our lives. During those times we have a negative relational association, often from someone saying something weird or doing something that we feel awkward about. At a deeper level, that embarrassment may source to us not liking to associate with the image or identity of that person. Imagine growing up in the middle of nowhere with some poverty and moving to a place like New York and establishing really influential connections and then having your parents come visit, you may love your parents but be embarrassed by what they represent about your past. Jesus did not seem to experience any sense of embarrassment with associating with those the world considers lowly, but that is not the case with most of us. We’ve learned that the city of Corinth was a place that cared about wealth, power and success more than the average ancient city and our passage today highlights that the Corinthians were somewhat humiliated by being associated with someone like Paul. Today, most of us have a deeper respect for Paul than he had in the ancient world. The Corinthians specifically had some embarrassed with Paul’s his lack of formal training and that he worked in the trades and the false teachers jumped on that and accused Paul of being inferior. What we see in our passage is that the servant leaders are willing to be humbled to love others and selfish leaders want others to be humbled so they can be lifted up.

There are certain people in your life that you feel protective for. Likely that list includes a spouse, kids or a younger sibling. If someone threatens them or tries to lead them astray, you step in, get in the way and try to protect the one you love. That is how Paul felt about the Corinthians because he planted their church and brought the gospel to them and there were false teachers leading them astray from the true gospel. In this passage of scripture Paul wanted the Corinthians and us to consider his attitude of divine jealousy and love and to be on guard against the false gospels that are offered in this world, even if those sources claim to follow Christ.

Having opposition is a fact of life, and often opposition comes most quickly for doing something right. This can be especially common if you are in a position of leadership. Often leadership includes having power and authority and many desire power for the wrong reasons. Some of us have reacted to this by avoiding power altogether, but what we see in our passage today is that power and authority is more like electricity than a lion. Both are dangerous, but if you view power like a lion on the street the goal is to get that lion in a cage as quickly as possible, but electricity is something that we can harness for the benefit of others. Why did God give someone like Paul authority and what is authority’s purpose?

Where do these false stories come from and how do we fight against them? In our scripture passage, Paul shifted away from his teaching on giving and went back to his discussion on the false teachers in Corinth who influenced the church towards ungodly belief which kept them stuck in sin. We learn that a key element of his ministry was destroying these worldviews so that ungodly thoughts could be taken captive to obey Christ.

Intellectually we know that God has no lack or inability to supply for our needs, but in practice many struggle to believe that God will supply for our needs. Some of us grew up paycheck to paycheck and may have had an opportunity to see God provide in unique ways, but others may have a greater level of worry or anxiety from that. God often supplies through our hard work, but also through gracious gifts we were not expecting. This theological truth does not mean we get to be unwise with our money or ignore biblical teaching on saving, but it does mean we should fight an impulse to hoard or resources or to be anxious. Paul closes out his teaching on giving with a focus on God’s supply and generosity as worship to free us from either viewing God as stingy or seeing generosity as only a duty rather than a delight of worship.

People can often look to others for either encouragement or comparison. God reminds us in the Bible to imitate godly examples. We are to look at how other people are living out their faith and find courage and encouragement to do the same. It is wise to acknowledge the dark side of this, like when we look at others and become competitive or filled with insecurity. Many of our sin struggles can be traced back to comparison,  including the sin of pride. But think for a moment, have you seen God at work in another person’s life and been filled with a desire to do the same or to grow more in a particular area? We can think of someone sharing a testimony about victory over sin or maybe someone who has been praying for someone to come to know the Lord and God leading that person to faith. We probably do not take issue with either of those examples, but Paul wrote that he boasted about the Corinthians giving in order to encourage other churchs. What if someone stood up on a Sunday morning and we praised them for their generous giving? You’d probably feel like they were being platformed, or that it was a dangerous situation to create pride in that person, or shame in everyone else. However, Paul tells us he did that very thing with the Corinthian church and it led to contagious giving among other churches. There is obviously a difference between praising an individual and praising a whole church, but notice the core theme, when our heart posture is to imitate godliness, we find even praise about generous giving can be contagious.

If a few thousand dollars left your bank account today how would you feel? Likely your mood would depend heavily on why that money left your account. If it went to unexpected car repair, taxes or identity theft you’d probably feel pretty bad about that. If it went towards a family vacation, new golf clubs or a dress for your daughter’s wedding you’d likely have some excitement. When it comes to generosity and giving, do you feel like it is an obligation or are you excited about what God is doing through your giving? Jesus taught that there was a connection between what we love and our money when he said “where our treasure is there your heart will be also (Matt 6:24).” There are many unexpected places our money can go that will cause us sadness, like who loves to pay their taxes? However we should remember as followers of Christ, when it comes to generosity we should be excited when the financial resources that God has given us flow towards his work because his work is all about his glory and blessing people. We may be tempted to view generosity as a loss or a duty, but what Paul taught is that it is a sure investment and a proof of love for God and his people.

There is a big difference between receiving a gift from someone because they have to give it and because they want to give it. Think about situations where you attend an event and have to bring a gift, because it is expected and the difference when you just delight to give someone a gift because you love and care for them. How would you feel if someone attended your birthday party and brought you a gift and you thanked them but their response was “well, you know I kind of had to bring it?”

What are the biggest influences on your beliefs and actions around money? It could be that you took some classes in high school that taught finances or maybe you majored in accounting, it could even be that your parents showed you a good practice for spending, saving and giving. However, many people have just coasted through life without intentional formation around how to think about and use money. At the same time, people can be closed off to the church’s teaching around money because there is a myth out in the world that the church talks about money all the time and just wants your hard earned cash. Yet, think about it, how often does then world sell you stuff, or try to advertise risky ways to invest that promise an amazing return quickly, or even non-profits who may aggressively sell you a vision. Who talks about money more the world or the church; and who would you rather learn about money from, the world or from God?

Many of us have experienced conviction over sin in our lives and rather than repenting and moving forward with change we stay stuck in a cycle of guilt and shame. Some of us can be really soft hearted and easily beat ourselves up over things we’ve done, even years later. It is quite possible you may even think that change is impossible or that God could not love someone like you based on what you have done or what you are currently struggling with. These thoughts can often be traced back to the emotions of guilt and shame and a disordered way of seeing ourselves and God’s grace.

God has made us for relationships and those relationships shape us more than we probably realize. Likely when you first started to follow Christ you found a group of Christian friends or joined a Bible study and began to be formed to be more like Christ. Some of us also experience the pull back to sinful actions and attitudes because we had a hard time cutting off old relationships. Paul tells the Corinthian church to not be unequally yoked, meaning to not become partners with those who would lead them away from a Christ like life. The Corinthians struggled with being emotionally entangled with false teachers and the pull back to their old pagan lives and Paul reminds them that they are holy and set apart by God and to separate from these relationships that were damaging their spiritual life. This can feel legalistic and reclusive to some of us, but we should take compromise and drift from God seriously. Paul’s idea here is that since we are already holy in God’s sight, we ought to pursue holiness in everyday life. Let’s explore Paul’s call to purity, the presence of God and how we can pursue holiness.

Does Paul try to sell us an “easy” Christian life? In our last study guide we discussed how God, by faith, makes his people into new creations in Christ. That the old is gone and the new has come. In many ways Christianity is easy because God does all the work and we receive it by faith. We do not need to be new and improved on our own before coming to faith in Jesus and this is good news. However, following Christ is hard and in our text Paul gives us a window into the challenges that come with gospel ministry as we participate in God’s call for us to be part of the ministry of reconciliation. In this we get a vision of the grace of God and the need for endurance as we serve and share Christ with others. When we talk about ministry, please do not hear “paid staff person” or “someone leading a church program,” throughout 2 Corinthians we’ve defined ministry as God’s call on all his followers to serve and share Christ with others.

Can people change? This is a question we ask subconsciously about others and even ourselves. It is possible to think that certain types of people are too far from God because of their sin or we can even hold our own past sin against ourselves instead of realizing how Christ has made us new. The gospel promises us that we can change and that God makes us new people in Christ. Jesus shared the news of the kingdom of God with the tax collector, prostitute and the Pharisees because all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. It has been said that the church is a hospital for sinners and not a museum of saints, so when we look around the church on a Sunday morning we are all in need of God’s grace. Yet, it is easy to judge one another’s growth and spiritual maturity by outwards appearances. It may be more helpful to think about where they started and where they are at now, because that measures progress. Some of us enter the hospital with deeper wounds and in need of more “care,” but we are all patients and Christ is the great physician (Mark 2:17). In our passage, Paul challenges us to not judge one another according to outward appearances, to remember that we are a new creation in Christ and to embrace our ministry of reconciliation.

If you have grown up in church or attended for a while you may struggle with wonder and awe at the resurrection of Jesus. The resurrection is both life changing on the one hand and familiar on the other. It is life changing in that our future hope and promise is that as Jesus rose from the dead so too will we rise and yet familiar in that we focus on it each Easter and many times throughout our preaching and teaching during the year. Yet get this, when the resurrection first happened that Easter morning, everyone was shocked. Jesus’s own disciples were shocked by Jesus’s triumph over death even though Jesus taught about his resurrection and it was predicted in the Hebrew Scriptures. Why was the resurrection so shocking and how is it core to your day to day faith in Jesus? Let’s explore how the disciples responded to the resurrection in Luke 24:36-39.

Do we live for the gaze of God or the glory that comes from people? Many of us want to be approved of or liked. We can see this from an early age in small kids who want their parents admiration. Kids will often ask their parents to watch them do some of the simplest things in order to have their attention. Throughout 2 Corinthians Paul has contrasted true Christian ministry to the false teachers in Corinth and in this passage he highlighted the motives for Christian ministry while condemning the false teachers for how they served for outward appearances and selfish reasons. In this passage we see a contrast of living for God’s admiration compared to the admiration of others and we learn that true Christian ministry is founded on the Fear of God and the Love of Christ.

Throughout this study guide we will use the term “Christian ministry” to refer to serving others and sharing Christ. This kind of ministry happens inside and outside the walls of church and church programing and is consistent with living out one’s faith in Christ.